Once In A Blue Moon

In the complex panorama of human relationships, love often finds itself masqueraded as various other emotions and states of being. As we delve deeper into the intricacies of what constitutes true love, it becomes imperative to shed light on what love is not. Only by demystifying the false pretenses can we find our way to genuine, unconditional love that resonates with authenticity and mutual respect. Let’s embark on a journey to discern the true essence of love by first identifying what masks it often wears.

It Is Not Lack

First and foremost, love cannot be equated to a void that necessitates another person to feel complete. When happiness becomes contingent upon someone else’s presence, it symbolizes a gaping hole within, a lack. Genuine love flourishes in the individual happiness that blossoms independently, only then can it merge to create a garden of joy that is both vibrant and beautiful.

It Is Not Lack of Self Love

Often, the serpent of jealousy coils around relationships, injecting venomous insecurities and doubts. When you find yourself clutching desperately onto someone, mistrusting others perceived as rivals, and forsaking your self-worth in the process, recognize this as a lack of self-love. True love is grounded in trust, security, and a firm sense of self-worth.

It Is Dependence, Not Love

A relationship transformed into a crutch, signifying an inability to envision a fulfilling life alone, embodies dependence, not love. Maintaining a relationship that has withered, simply due to fear of loneliness, strays far from the nurturing abode of love. Authentic love provides wings, encouraging growth and flourishing both individually and as a couple.

It Is Selfish

Ownership and dominance are traits alien to love. When one seeks to exert control, restricting the other person’s freedom to express and make decisions, it manifests as selfishness. Love is generous, allowing space for mutual respect and individual autonomy.

It’s Friendship

Even amidst the absence of romantic and sexual fulfillment, finding pleasure in another person’s company represents friendship. While friendship is a beautiful connection, mistaking it for love can lead to a road of confusion and unfulfilled expectations.

It Is Desire

Relationships driven by arguments, jealousy, and discord yet held together by a physical attraction represent sheer desire. This tumultuous connection lacks the harmony, understanding, and companionship that are the hallmarks of love.

It Is Passion

The whirlwind of intense physiological reactions – a racing heart, fluctuations in temperature, heightened arousal, while entrancing, characterize passion rather than love. Passion may be a component of love but standing alone, it lacks the depth and commitment that defines true love.

As we remove the veils that mask the true face of love, we pave the way for a deeper understanding and recognition of genuine affection, commitment, and attraction. Equipped with this wisdom, we find ourselves better positioned to cultivate a relationship rooted in balanced, authentic love – a connection that honors both individuals and nurtures a bond that blossoms in unison.

In your journey, may you find the true essence of love, where affection meets passion, intimacy intertwines with commitment, fostering a symbiotic connection that blossoms with mutual respect and genuine attraction. Remember, true love waits patiently, blossoming in the garden of mutual understanding and reciprocal affection. Here’s to finding and nurturing true love in its purest, most authentic form.

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