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December 6, 2025

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What is Framing Bias?

Definition Framing bias is when the same facts lead to different decisions depending on how they are presented. Gains versus…
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The classic list of Pride, Greed, Lust, Envy, Gluttony, Wrath, and Sloth survives because it names patterns that derail judgment, corrode relationships, and waste our attention. Read them not as crimes to shame, but as early warning systems. Each points to a virtue that restores balance.

Pride

Core idea: Inflated self-importance that resists truth.
Modern look: Defensiveness in feedback, credit hoarding, performative leadership, constant comparison to prove worth.
Cost: Stalled growth and fragile trust.
Antidote practice: Humility in action. Ask for one hard critique each week, say what you learned, and share credit by name. Replace self-promotion with evidence of service and outcomes.

Greed

Core idea: More is never enough.
Modern look: Career decisions driven only by compensation, hoarding information, chasing status goods, relentless deal making that ignores people.
Cost: Narrowed view of value, brittle teams, burnout.
Antidote practice: Generosity with boundaries. Set a personal enough number for money and time. Give first where it matters, and measure wealth as options, relationships, and unhurried time.

Lust

Core idea: Treating others as instruments for pleasure or validation.
Modern look: Swiping for dopamine, flirting to win attention, pornography shaping expectations, romantic escalation that outruns respect.
Cost: Numbing, erosion of intimacy, self-objectification.
Antidote practice: Chastity understood as integrated desire. Slow the pace, keep promises, and align attraction with care. Choose conversations that reveal character and values before pursuit.

Envy

Core idea: Pain at another’s good.
Modern look: Social feeds as fuel, quiet resentment at colleagues’ wins, sabotage by faint praise, chronic FOMO.
Cost: Bitterness, misallocated effort, zero-sum thinking.
Antidote practice: Admiration plus action. Turn each twinge into a study plan. What exact skill did they use, and what is your first drill to build it. Celebrate others in public and learn in private.

Gluttony

Core idea: Excess that dulls the mind.
Modern look: Endless snacking, binge-watching, compulsive scrolling, work binges that ignore recovery.
Cost: Blunted attention, unreliable energy, lower baseline joy.
Antidote practice: Temperance as design. Pre-commit portions, timebox entertainment, set phone-free meals, and protect sleep. Pleasure improves when it is chosen, not chased.

Wrath

Core idea: Unruled anger that seeks payback.
Modern look: Slack outbursts, email nukes, road rage, simmering sarcasm.
Cost: Fear in teams, reputation damage, poor decisions.
Antidote practice: Patience with spine. Use a two-step rule. First regulate body state with breath and posture. Then respond with boundaries and facts. If heat remains, wait one sleep cycle before any irreversible move.

Sloth

Core idea: Failure to love the good that is yours to do.
Modern look: Avoiding meaningful tasks for busywork, doomscrolling, drifting through days without aim.
Cost: Wasted potential, creeping self-contempt.
Antidote practice: Diligence with compassion. Name one worthy priority each morning, start it for ten minutes, and protect a daily block for deep work. Track streaks to keep momentum visible.


How the Sins Interlock

They rarely travel alone. Pride resists feedback that would cure sloth. Envy tempts greed. Gluttony worsens sleep which lowers impulse control and feeds wrath. Notice clusters. Fixing one habit often eases two more.

A Practical Map: The Seven Counter-Virtues

  • Humility for Pride: seek truth over image.
  • Generosity for Greed: create value beyond self.
  • Chastity for Lust: align desire with care.
  • Kindness for Envy: will the good of others.
  • Temperance for Gluttony: design limits that free you.
  • Patience for Wrath: regulate, then respond.
  • Diligence for Sloth: show up for the work that matters.

Diagnostics You Can Run This Week

  1. Calendar check: Does your schedule reflect your stated values. If not, which sin is steering.
  2. Feedback loop: Ask one person for a candid improvement you can start today. Pride softens when curiosity leads.
  3. Money lens: For a decision in front of you, write two columns. More income versus more meaning, learning, or autonomy. If the left column always wins, Greed is loud.
  4. Attention audit: Track where your attention goes in 24 hours. Any binges signal Gluttony. Insert a friction step before the next session.
  5. Anger journal: When anger hits, record trigger, body signal, and the boundary you need. Wrath turns useful when it defends values without harm.
  6. Envy to plan: Name the person you envy and the single skill behind your envy. Book a practice time for it.
  7. Ten minute start: For the task you keep avoiding, start for ten minutes. Diligence often begins with motion, not motivation.

Leading Others With This Framework

  • Name the virtue, not the sin. Say, We are practicing patience in incidents, not Stop being angry.
  • Show measures. Track lead indicators such as focus blocks, feedback requests, and sleep hours, not only lagging results.
  • Build defaults. Generosity grows when referral templates and knowledge bases make sharing easy. Temperance grows when teams default to phone-free meetings and buffer time.

Closing Thought

The seven sins are not relics from a harsher age. They are precise names for the forces that pull us off course. Treat them as dashboards. When one light flashes, answer with the matching virtue and a small practice you can repeat. Over time the signal changes. Attention clears, relationships strengthen, and work regains meaning.


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