Success is one of those words that gets thrown around a lot, but rarely means the same thing to two people. Some define it by money, others by titles, others by freedom or impact. But no matter your definition, the key to truly gauging success is to make sure you’re measuring the right things.

1. Define it for yourself

Before you can gauge success, you need to decide what it means to you—not your boss, not your parents, not society. Is it building something of your own? Is it having time for your family? Is it becoming the best at your craft? Clarity is everything. If you don’t define success for yourself, someone else will do it for you.

2. Look beyond the surface

External markers—like income, followers, or awards—can be indicators, but they aren’t the full picture. Ask yourself: Do I feel proud of the way I’m showing up? Am I at peace with my choices? Am I growing? Success isn’t just about what you have—it’s about how you live.

3. Measure consistency, not just milestones

Big wins matter, but it’s your habits and consistency that reflect real success. Are you showing up when it’s hard? Are you keeping promises to yourself? Progress isn’t always flashy. Sometimes it’s quiet discipline, repeated day after day.

4. Consider the impact

Real success often creates a ripple effect. Have you helped someone else? Have you made something better than you found it? Have you used your time and talent in a way that matters? Impact doesn’t have to be global. It just has to be real.

5. Check in regularly

What felt like success five years ago might not be enough now—or it might not even be relevant. Make time to reflect. Ask yourself if your current path aligns with your values and your evolving vision. Success should adapt as you do.

In the end, success isn’t a destination. It’s a way of moving through the world. It’s knowing what matters, staying true to it, and being willing to adjust along the way. If you’re doing that, you’re further along than you think.